I think you are being a bit harsh with the DS4 it's not that bad of a controller. I personnaly couldn't get around most Nintendo controllers but the DS4 isn't the worst I think it's pretty great.
Aslo what is it you don't trust about MS exactly? Since it's release it only showed improvement and kept the updates with the dashboard. Also I find games on X1 to be really great, upcoming exclusives mixed with multiplat seems to indicate it would be a great choice for you.
I didn't have too much time with WiiU yet because I feel it's lacking in games but Bayonetta is one hell of a good reason to own one.
Maybe you should make a list of games that interest you on every consoles and go with the one that has more in the immediate then later buy the other one. Also don't be to emotional, both Sony and MS are not to be "trusted" they both want your money badly and will try anything to get it. Just view them as companies that offer you a gaming opportunities.
