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I definitely would pray first and foremost. My second suggestion was going to be that if you could afford it and have the space and ability that you should take them in. I see that you have 3 of your own as well as a girlfriend who has 3 children so that seems like it would be quite the family. I grew up as youngest of 7 children, but I loved it. I know you kind of feel some responsibility, but they are not your children and unfortunately this situation is not uncommon. There is a family that is willing to adopt them so I would let them. If the children grow up wanting some questions answered or want to contact family, you could always leave your info with the foster family and the agency. But I would take some solace in knowing that at least they are going to a family.