The Romantic Advice Thread

[DonFerrari]

Mr Khan said:

BeElite said:

Ask her out enjoy a few dates get lsome see over time if your compatible.

It seems your a type that ponders life 30 years later after 5 minutes talking to a girl, quit that shit and just go for it. Take the good and bad and don't let your mind fuck it up for you by over thinking shit.

Just try it out now think it over later.

Sometimes its best to let your dick lead you to new things.

I do tend to overthink, but that's almost a constant. Brain never stops. The problem is when i let the overthinking get to me, like it did four years ago. I just don't want to inconvenience anyone.

I think i'll wait a few weeks and make my move in early October. She's new to grad school so relationship stuff might be a bit out of the blue for her right now. Plus fall is just a more romantic season than Summer, at least i think (i'd argue summer as the least romantic, but that's a topic for a different day).

Don't ever lose time... it's better to regret taking action too son, make a mistake and have time to fix than waiting to long and miss the chance (same in work, having a bad answer is better than no answer at all because you at least will have a starting point).

If you like to overthink, use it in things that won't affect you, try to mentalize what you would like to do with her around christmas, but for now just go for it. Today is a good day, tomorrow is always bad, when we drag we may never have time to do it;