First heartbreak

[NotStan]

NiKKoM said:

NotStan said:
Well I did forget to mention she still speaks to her ex etc, so that kinda made things worse considering what happened before we got together was still nagging at me, so you know that sort of created this paranoia which I do NOT want another guy having to go through.

While its very nice and considering to the next guy.. Anyone with a slight bit of confidence wouldn't be bothered by her baggage she has.. We all have baggage at a certain age, some more then other but there is no need to go through all of it.. Also pretty telling that you're not ready yet to move on: you're thinking of the next guy for her but not the next girl for yourself and what it would do to her if you still spoke to your ex.. Give it time..

Well that's the problem I guess. My confidence is in tatters now. As you said time will allow me to move on and with something like 3 billion women, there is bound to be one for me, plenty of fish in the sea, no point going all mosby about it