First heartbreak

[Hynad]

NiKKoM said:

NotStan said

She also wants to be friends with me and it was the case of "It's not you, it's me". But I know it was me AND her. And I know full well a friendship wouldn't cut it either, because whilst we're still friends we won't be able to move onto serious relationships with our somewhat brief - yet long history together, and it would just create a vicious cycle.

Ow don't be bothered by that "still friends" stuff.. Most of the time the"friendship" dies out quickly like a 10 inch gapping hole in your back..

I see them maybe once or twice a year (now i do have a lot of ex gfs so i see one every 2 to 3 weeks) 

Her saying she wants to "still be friends" is just her being polite in the circumstances. It helps her relieve some of her guilt that way...

Don't fall for it. Cut her out of your life right away and don't look back. I know it's hard. And the pain, man... I know. But nothing good will come from clinging to her or the past you shared with her.