I do find the money hatting comments funny though
How do you think Sony got Bloodborne? I assure you there was money / marketing deals in place to make it an exclusive. MS simply did the same here.
Is it annoying? Yes I would have rather bought it on PS4 / PC so they could push the graphics farther, but I'm fine buying it on Xbox One as well.
Using resources to secure a 3rd party exclusive is nothing new. If you haven't learned by now its worth owning all the major consoles each generation let me assure you it is.