I hate real time combat but I also hate slow paced turn based systems, both so much that I do not play these games at all.
I do not like all Tactical RPGs, Final Fantasy X / XV and all Tales games for that reason.
But I really like fast paced turn based combat systems like Dragon Quest, Chrono Cross / Trigger, FF1-9, Xenosaga 3, Skies of Arcadia and even FF12 and Xenoblade, or games like Lufia 2 where you just need to hold down the L-button to get combat done.