Ex best friends forever ?

[Tavin]

kingofwale said:

Tavin said:

kingofwale said:

routsounmanman said:
True friends remain close forever no matter what. That's the most important thing, not the time you spend together.

There's no such thing as 'true friend', Humans by nature are born to focus on themselves. Sooner or later 2 people's interest will conflict with their 'friendship'.

 

Sure, it's always an awesome story to tell when you'v had a friend for 2343 years, but in truth. Most people grow apart.

And it's so great when those different interests don't interfere with friendship. True friends exist and i think it is sad not to think that way, maybe we born with the tendence to focus on ourselves ... but i think we can change that and actually a lot of people does it.

and like someone aleady said ... friendship is not defined by the time spent together ... but for the

love that exists between people

 Of course we do tend to overlook/overcome our differences for the sake of keeping a friendship. But I don't believe there is such thing as "true friends" that will stay together no-matter-what.

 Cynical? Maybe, but I see myself as a realist. And as a realist, I won't have to bear as much emotional baggage this way.

 I really think i have true friends ... and i think we've passed through a lot to say that we are really friends in all the sense of the word, and that's why i think that your "realistic" point of view ... is more of a personal point of view ^^