My PS4 came with a free month of PSN Plus, some music service AND $10 to spend on the PSN store.
The PS4 headset works fine for me and all that extra stuff you've mentioned is superfluous, including Kinect, so it doesn't add any VALUE as far as I'm concerned.
If I had to choose between buying two same sized TVs - one with superior picture quality and the other with a fancier remote that takes voice commands and has a power outlet that allows me to plug in things like video game consoles directly into the TV instead of the wall - I'll go with the superior picture quality. While a fancy remote and being able to plug my console directly into the TV instead of the wall is cool, the most important thing about a TV is the quality of how things look on the TV, not superfluous bells and whistles.
Same goes for my consoles, I buy a console to play games, not plug a cable box into it or voice command the dashboard.
Although if Sony was smart they'd add a microphone to that speaker in the middle of the controller and for $3 extra dollars in manufacturing costs they would have matched Kinect's most used and useful feature, voice control.