@OP: Watch Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Captain Ray Holt is, IMHO, exactly what are you talking about - gay man that is represented as human, not as gay-human. He is, again IMHO, one of the best characters in any show airing currently (saying all this as a straight man).
OT: I've read the "article", really lousy one, it falls in the same category as those "every game needs to have choice whether you play as a man or a woman".







