Well wright, mabey you shouldn't think in terms of this person being a really good trap, bc that kind of relationship will work better with a gay guy. I always tell my the few gays that I fo know to not just hang out with straight people, especially if they need someone special in their life.
Btw, my cousin is a bull homo, he moved to Thailand several years ago bc apparently it's where gays and trannies flock to. And he's married to a trannie too, so it works out.