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Since you supposedly have a few things in common, cut foreplay and just ask her out to something you both claim you're into. Get her number.

Don't ask her to "hang out" or "come along with you" to whatever it is you want to do with her. That's like asking to be in her friend zone. Let her know you're interested in her; be assertive. Let her know it's a date.

If she hems and haws or gives you some sort of excuse, she's just messing with you and you should drop your obsession before it gets any worse and move on.