Where are the female users?

[TheShape31]

haxxiy said:

TheShape31 said:

I think that this is very telling about the average male's perspective of women in general.  The truth is that men and women are not that different.  Perhaps you're basing this notions on your own life experience.  But having travelled all over the world and met women of all ages/cultures/backgrounds I'm just going to say that you cannot generalize the sex of a person like that.  Maybe you just need to get out of the bubble of life that you currently exist in, but there are females that enjoy the same humor (and even more vulgar than you), do not conform to societal norms, and may even be more of a 'dude' than you.

So when a female sees someone write about how a guy views a girl in this way, it's all the more reason to stay away.  Because you're a bit off, for the most part.

So basically you are trying to say stereotipically girly stuff = inherently bad, and there are girls who are manly too, so they are not all that terrible. Instead of acknowledging a difference you are doing something even worse, which is setting a standard from which to base acceptable behaviour on. You exalted the "butch" exceptions as if to make up for the "femme" majority. The way you jumped on the neutral descritpion of a stereotypical femme showcases your ideological bias even more so.

Your reaction also makes me state with a reasonable confidence you are American and under 20, despite what you might say.

You've also missed the point.  I'm attempting to explain that women are all essentially different from one another in the same way that men are.  Also that many men and women are extremely similar.  I was in no way insinuating that any 'traditional' man or woman was either good or bad.  That assumption is all on you.  My point, once again, is not to generalize anyone based on their sex (or color, height, background, etc.) or you appear to be very out of touch with reality.  

And, again, these generalizations are what help keep women from frequenting forums of these kinds (outside of an unhealthy amount of immaturity).

Oh, and be reasonably confident that you are incredibly off-base with all of your assumptions (especially the last one).  Sounds like a more varied life experience might help you out, too.  In time.