Where are the female users?

[Vikki]

haxxiy said:

TheShape31 said:

I think that this is very telling about the average male's perspective of women in general.  The truth is that men and women are not that different.  Perhaps you're basing this notions on your own life experience.  But having travelled all over the world and met women of all ages/cultures/backgrounds I'm just going to say that you cannot generalize the sex of a person like that.  Maybe you just need to get out of the bubble of life that you currently exist in, but there are females that enjoy the same humor (and even more vulgar than you), do not conform to societal norms, and may even be more of a 'dude' than you.

So when a female sees someone write about how a guy views a girl in this way, it's all the more reason to stay away.  Because you're a bit off, for the most part.

So basically you are trying to say stereotipically girly stuff = inherently bad, and there are girls who are manly too, so they are not all that terrible. Instead of acknowledging a difference you are doing something even worse, which is setting a standard from which to base acceptable behaviour on. You exalted the "butch" exceptions as if to make up for the "femme" majority. The way you jumped on the neutral descritpion of a stereotypical femme showcases your ideological bias even more so.

Your reaction also makes me state with a reasonable confidence you are American and under 20, despite what you might say.

Everybody is different. There are very few girls who are 100% butch or 100% "OMG I BROKE A NAIL". Most of us are somewhat of a mixture, in the same way that most guys are not completely camp or macho. It's just silly to generalize.