SamuelRSmith on 29 December 2013
Been to strip clubs with my girlfriend (albeit, accidentally). While it was all-female, she didn't mind me ogling, and I don't care when she ogles other men.
I don't see why you think that she's going to immediately cheat, even if she was dissatisfied with you. Most people don't do that, because they appreciate the pain it would cause. I've gotta say, I've had numerous situations where I could have ended up cheating on my girlfriend. The thing that stops it is knowing how much it would hurt her, and I don't want to hurt her.
And I go three, four months at a time without sex due to the fact that we live on opposite sides of the rock. To say that I have times of sexual frustration is an understatement.
