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I was gonna say D21 has it right, but NiKKoM obviously knows better.

Anyway, as long as there's no touching you could always think of it as live porn. If it is such a huge issue for you though and it's just a "if she was invited to one she'd definitely go" thing for her, than you should be able to talk about this with her without stirring too much of a problem.