Why are you a virgin? *OFFICIAL VIRGIN THREAD*

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WagnerPaiva said:

Soleron said:

Age 22.

Zero friends. Cannot cope in social situations. No opportunity to practice to get up to an acceptable standard for human contact.

Man, it is actually much easier than you think, you don´t even have to look good. The only secret is NOT to get needy.

Just talk to a potencial sexual partner about getting intimate, simple as that, talk like it is a natural thing, but you gotta be friendlly with her first, not friends, but friendlly.

NEVER give gifts, NEVER fall in love before sex. I like to use this:

"Hey Janet, you know, I gotta ask you something, but you gotta promise you will not get ofended".

"Sure Wagner, I will not get ofended".

"I mean it, I respect you a lot, I will only ask that because you are an adult and I think are mature enough to say no and not get angry or something like that"

"Sure man, I hear you."

"Well, I would like to go to bed with you, you are a great friend, but I feel this desiree for you, I think it would be dishonest not to tell you that I want to go to bed with you, just once at least."

Then she will answer.

Whatever she answer, CHANGE THE SUBJECT

"No way man, it will never happen!"

"That is ok, hey, did you hear tha Richie Sambora left Bon Jovi, I really liked him, do you think they can be good even without him?"

If she say YES, change the subject too, she will understand you are not desesperate.

Only do this if you can comunicate that you are ok hearing NO.

Lol I need to try this out.