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Jay520 said:
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It's only unfair when you look at the circumstances after pregnancy. If you look at the entire picture, you will see that the man had his own time to make a decision and so did the woman. At some point the man makes a decision to give his sperm to a female. Then the female makes a decision to use that sperm or not. The difference between the two parties is simply the timing of their decisions, but both parties get their time to decide. During their respective decisions, if both parties choose the action that leads to pregnancy, then it makes sense that both should be responsible for it.

No. Having sex doesn't amount to consent to raise a child with that person.

You would effectively be ending recreational sex. Since contraception is only 99% effective. 

The male's decision to support or not support should come after he learns of a pregnancy.