Muffin31190 said:
BlowoverKing said:
IMO abortion in the form of "oops! I had sex and now i'm pregnant, how did that happen?" is wrong. If you choose to have sex then you accept that you may have a baby, cuz ya know thats kind of what sex is for. Therefore once a couple get's pregnant they have already chosen that they are going to have a baby. There is no such thing as an "unexpected pregnancy" when you knowingly and willingly have sex. |
I'm Guessing you have never had sex then
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But in all seriousness if people take preventative measures against Pregnancy (such as condoms and Birth control) but still end up getting pregnant, I don't think it's fair to say that they have "chosen that they are going to have a baby". Because even with all the birth control in the world it is still possible for a women to become pregnant as most Birth control measures are not 100%.
So in short yeah if you have sex without birth control methods then yes you are screaming for a baby and you should deal with the consequences, but in a good number of cases the couple were actually being as safe as they could and some women still managed to get pregnant.
But if you honestly think sex is just for making babys' then you should really try and look at it differently because most people believe that Sex is more about loving someone than actually trying to procreate
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Of course sex isn't just about making babies, theres an emotional side to it as well. However that's no excuse to just brush off sex's main function as a "side effect".
