VonShigsy said:
Shambolic said:
More on topic, you girls might be able to answer this, then again you might well not.
As a guy I know, obviously, what I find attractive in a woman. And although everyone has different tastes pretty much every guy has a similar idea of what is attractive and beautiful in a woman. Even straight women acknowledge them as being beautiful.
So it would make sense to me that a lesbian would be attracted to these traits in women as well. But so many lesbians I have seen and met go for, and have the butch, manly look. I don't really get why they are attracted to women who don't have the more conventional look of a beautiful woman, in fact they often look more similar to men than women.
I know you're both bi rather than lesbians, and I have no idea what you find attractive in a partner, I just thought you might have a better idea of this than me. |
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" All men have different tastes, same goes as women. Now for the "butch" part..it's no coincidence that those women are the aggressor in their relationships, taking over aspects that a "man" would use. They are the dominant part of the relationship, mainly because beauty is used as a weapon, so these women are forced to act with a ruff charm which empowers them. So a strong personality and need to protect the "beautiful" mate, dazzles their partner. Or at least, that's what i'm thinking.
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Fulfilling the usual roles in a relationship and society. That sounds right, even in a more unconventional relationship there are still traditional conventions.
And I agree about Jessica Simpson. Jessica Alba on the other hand...
