Seece said:
luisgvm said:
Seece said:
luisgvm said:
i am a gaymer over here, from Venezuela :)
one question, this goes to straight, bi. or gays. would you forgive the person you love, if he/she would have been unfaithfull??.
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Depends on the circumstances, more than likely no reason would be good enough tho, and it just taints the relationship and sucks the trust out of it. It's very hard to come back from.
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well, you are totally right. i ask because it happened to me. my boyfriend confessed that he cheated on me once. i decided to forgive him. but since then, we have a lot of trust issues. and its kinda akward, with the passing of time its getting a little bit better. but still. i think it could never be the same thing.
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Sorry to hear that, I guess you have to look at the reason behind why he cheated and ask yourself, has that changed? Can it happen again?
I mean there are scenarios where you understand something else was at play (perhaps addicted to drugs, they'll do anything for a fix, that's a whole other story tho!)
I think if you want to continue and trust him again you have to truly let it go and any thought he might do it again (even if he might) otherwise you'll never get passed it. Obviously that leaves you slightly open with the chance he could do it again.
Sucky situation! If it's that bad someone is driven to cheat they need to question why they're in the relationship.
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well, its a long story with a lot more details. haha. but you are right.
