| Scisca said:
Now let's not pretend that's not true. I've spent some time this holiday around a gay dude from Italy and even my sister who is very girly felt he was more feminine than she is (yes he was). Not every gay guy is like that, but a fair number is, so don't act so indignant and disbelieving what you see. On top of that almost all gay guys have these characteristic hand movements that normal guys can't even really imitate, cause your moves are too soft and delicate, thus feminine and girly. |
That's some serious sterotyping. Nobody said that more "feminine" gay guys don't exist, they do, and they have every right to express themselves as they see fit. But they aren't vast majority within gay community... They don't reflect typical behavior of gay guys... Since there isn't a typical behavior for either gay or straight. We don't get a membership card and a DVD with arm gestures that we need to learn once we "come out". But to say that there aren't as you've said "soft and delicate" straight guys would be also a lie. I've know poeple for whom I would have sworn that they are gay, but they ended up happily married to girls. As much as I hate the term "straight acting" since nobody really acts anything, most gay people "behave" just like everybody else.
