Dr.Grass said:
Very entertaining :) BTW, from what I've read we are very, very different people haha! But not in a bad way. Some of my best friends are massive players. I on the other hand have only slept with 5 girls (2 were once-off affairs). This might seem even more feminine than the above "cream comment", but I enjoy the look of "I want you SO bad" in a woman's eyes much more than actually ending up in bed with her. It's usually a little over-rated. |
Diversity is always good. A lion and a tiger, both of which are different in approach, but they do go after their prey (and like to be around grass, apparently lol)
Well ... I won't get into my numbers since some might perceive my divulgates as bragging, and I dislike such behavior. I prefer humility, but I will say that my numbers are very respectable and are often met with envy among my American friends. :) Sex is not difficult in Latin America/Caribbean area (at least where I live). And that’s when I realized American gamers, on average, don’t get laid as much, especially when I show them pictures of previous relations. They often expect me to be in he same boat as them lol
I've never considered myself a player though. I've always been overshadowed by my friends from high school to undergrad. And I’ve been very inconsistent. Sometimes I get nothing for months, and then I get as much as 7 in a week and I’m juggling 2 in a day. I've been relatively successful, but their numbers dwarfed mine. My mentor has 400+ women under his belt - around 300 of which are very beautiful women (I am not exaggerating ... this man is a legend in my country. I was only in his presence since he's my first cousin lol). I got by due to my looks - which apparently are not bad by my culture's standards - and the association with those cliques from high school to undergrad. Women seem to go for status and social proof and I capitalized on that. If you hang with a few popular guys and are in the company of some beautiful women, even if it is superficial, it will go a long way. My place as the smart guy, video game nerd and ‘green chemist’ earned their respect lol
I on the other hand was much more interested in my education, so while my friends had more women, I got better grades and maintained top honors throughout my academic life. I don't regret this, but I got tired of relying on the aforementioned elements that contributed to my previous success, so I endeavored to be more of a go getter and learn what was best to attract them without looks and popular friends. So far so good, but still much work to do. :) As of now I have no desire to be in a relationship again, unless it is a VERY interesting woman.
I know what you mean. After chasing tail you realize it’s a hollow victory if all you’re doing is sleeping with them and that’s the extent of the connection you have. As I tell my friends, I much prefer to do an ‘inception’ on women and know that I mean something to them. Plant that idea in the head and let it manifest in a tangible expression.
And no … no connection to South Africa … nothing but the queen lol
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