| Alby_da_Wolf said: Why "blaming" biology? The ecologically correct attitude would be to thank and give it due credit for our nice animal instinct! |
So if male sexual instinct is so tied to visual stimulation, be it and thank you, mother Nature! Oh this will probably go off topic completely but I'll get into the subject a little bit.
I am not trying to play the perfect guy here. I'm simply writing down my opinion on why I think portraying women as sex objects is more offensive than men. It's what I truly believe though I'll admit that it is only an opinion and I could be completely wrong.
As for biology, yes we are all sexually active, but we also have something called self control. We are not apes. And while yes I admit that I've went out with women based primarily off of them being gorgeous, i can also say they for the most part have completely bored me with a lack of personality. And while sex is something that is enjoyable i can personally say that it can also be boring with the wrong person regardless of how she looks. An emotional connection is something that trumps looks in my opinion. Here recently I've been more bored with women in my area than ever (I live in a small town).
What I am trying to say is that personality is very important. A girl can be pretty but Im not going to want to sleep with her unless I have a connection with her either. I know this answer will vary from guy to guy, but i personally want something more emotional. I dont think that is an "Ape" like characteristic.
