I don't think a 10fps frame rate difference "in theory" is that big of a deal if MS can drop some higher shadows or whatever. To me it's not really a big deal, and third parties are going to have to "take advantage" of the PS4 to really show the differences. It will just me like last gen where first party titles really shine. Those that optimize the PS4/XB1 respectively will have some really nice games.
If you care about graphics so much, just grab a high end PC.
It's just that simple.







