KungKras said:
Nyleveia said:
attaboy said:
I don't know why people got the impression that I have unrealistic expectations or that I don't know how to find decent women. I'm awesome! I didn't want her to be a model or anything. That doesn't even turn me on, anyway. I just want average, at least. It's just hard to break up with someone when they really haven't done anything wrong. She wants to meet my family, friends, etc. and I've been putting it off for about a week, now. I think I'm just going to do one of two things:
-not talk to her anymore and totally disappear from the earth
OR
-(thanks, xJBOwnagex) just say I was attracted to you but now, I'm not anymore. And, I think I will do it tomorrow. |
You admitted yourself that when you met her in person you werent attracted to her, you could have (easilly) cooled things off then and just been friends but you saw fit to ignore her physical traits long enough to get her in bed, but now youve got what you were after you dont want to deal with "being with a fatty", you are a dick, and as far from awesome as anyone can possibly get - you continued to sleep with her knowing you didnt want to be seen with her and wouldnt have sex certain ways to avoid seeing her from a bad angle - pure and simple you are below her and if she knew how much of a dick you were, "healthy and atheltic" or not, she would be the one dumping you.
As was said above, youre the one with the problem, not her - you werent forced into the relationship nor were you forced to keep sleeping with her, i genuiely hope any future girls you end up with find out how shallow and self obsorbed you are because nobody deserves to end up with a prick like you.
You wanted the truth and you got it, dont cry.
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You're acting like he can help ow he feels.
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Im acting like he felt the way he does now the moment he saw her in person but fucked her anyway like an asshole, which is exactly what he did.
danasider said:
attaboy said:
I don't know why people got the impression that I have unrealistic expectations or that I don't know how to find decent women. I'm awesome! I didn't want her to be a model or anything. That doesn't even turn me on, anyway. I just want average, at least. It's just hard to break up with someone when they really haven't done anything wrong. She wants to meet my family, friends, etc. and I've been putting it off for about a week, now. I think I'm just going to do one of two things:
-not talk to her anymore and totally disappear from the earth
OR
-(thanks, xJBOwnagex) just say I was attracted to you but now, I'm not anymore. And, I think I will do it tomorrow. |
It's sad that people are calling you shallow and blaming you for not being physically attracted to this girl. The fact is humans are hardwired a certain way, evolutionarily speaking, where attraction does matter.
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People are calling him shallow and a scumbag, not because he isnt physically attracted to her, but because he didnt act on KNOWING this the moment he met her, and strung her along anyway, most likely for the sex.
and if youre saying thats the way men are hard wired, and we should excuse the times men sleep with girls theyre not attracted to and dont even want to be seen with, all because theyre men, then fuck you too.
