stay...but try to gently tell her that being healthy is important to you and something you value in a partner. You know that she is conscious of her weight and would like to lose it (based on what few posts I've read so far)--so help her do that. I mean anyone who is overweight probably has thoughts of losing weight, they just lack self-efficacy and motivation---you can help build her self-efficacy and give her the motivation she needs to lose the weight. I don't know all the detail but from what I know so far, it sounds as if it would be a mistake to just leave, and probably something you may well end regretting later. At least try and help her change first before ending the relationship.
What if the table was turned...would you want your dream girlfriend to tell you that there's an aspect of yourself that she's not enamoured with (i.e., doesn't like) but is willing to help you change it for the sake of the relationship? Or would you prefer her to just end the relationship with a lame/non-existent explanation?
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