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Nem said:

Heres the secret to a good relationship: You solve your problems together.

It is incredibly shallow to dump her because of her looks. You can also help her lose weight. I'm sure shes not happy about it either.

If you do dump her, i dont know how old you are, but in a few years you will regret it. Finding a good person to be with isnt easy. The Miss pefect you are expecting most probably doesnt exist. You will end up alone if you're overly picky.

I agree with this. You can help her in this situation. You said she obviously knows she's fat (and she probably doesn't want to be) so why not try to help her instead of leaving her on her own? Don't be a jerk like that, just try to help her.

Mention that you guys could work out at the gym together. I personally enjoy working out with people, maybe she will too.