What's the best way to break up with someone because they're fat?

[JGarret]

attaboy said:

JGarret said:
You shouldn´t have gone ahead with dating her when you met her, but now, I´d say the best course of action is to be honest.It won´t be pretty but it´ll be better for both of you the sooner you tell her.

That's the downside to online dating.  You meet somebody and judge them by the info they put in their profile.  Then, you send messages and phone numbers and, by the time you actually meet, it seems like you're already in a relationship.  I knew she had a great personality and we had chemistry but the first meeting was like, "Uh, oh..."  There's a lot of things I shouldn't have done (oh, the things I shouldn't have done...) but at this point, what's happened has happened.  I can't change what I did.  I just don't know what to do.

How long have you been seeing her?...Has she met any of your friends/family?...You can´t change the past,but if you really want to break up with her without hurting her (already low?) self-esteem, you could always make up a story, that doesn´t involve her physical looks, about why you don´t want to keep seeing her.