Rêveur on 03 August 2013
If you make efforts to stay in shape, it's perfectly normal to expect someone with the same body type as you. You should not be ashamed for expecting or wanting someone in good shape.
You should just tell her that you need someone as sporty as you are, who does sports regularly and pays attention to what she eats. And really, having sex with her when you aren't attracted? You know, leading people on is worse than telling them the truth. I'm pretty sure it'll hurt her less to break up with her now than to stay with her, make her get attached to you before you finally can't take it anymore and break up.
