I guess I feel validated being the gentleman I am taking them out for dinner first. It can be done in 3 moves or less but to be safe it's recommended to use 5 moves (e.g. dates first).
Here is how you do it safely:
1. Meet and greet (like at a coffee house just to see if you connect at the basic level)
2. First date (e.g. movie, park, outside event)
3. Second date (at her place or yours, don't try it yet, it shows you respect her in a vulnerable situation, leave at the end of the night)
4. Filler date
5. Sleepover date (this is code for sex, every girl knows what this means and she should feel save by date 5 to do it).
Again, it can be done in less than 3 moves but it's risky and only really works on slutty girls. Five moves is all it takes, I guarantee high success rate.
It's kind of like chess if you think about it.
