I've no intention to discuss my beliefs as we aren't going to change each others opinion but I will talk about sex outside of marriage. Generally speaking sex with a new partner is going to be pretty crap at first (compared to when you know someone). Its for this reason I'm quite picky about partners, I'd never sleep with a girl unless I thought I could get into a relationship with them. To me its all about respecting your sexual partners which is what you'd do in a long term relationship anyway. Some people just can't go without sex though so we're all different.







