Seriously a save sex for marriage thread? This is 2013 right not 1913. I don't see any particular value to saving sex for marriage. I have been married 10 years now and sex is a small component of a long term relationship, paying bills and raising kids takes way more of our time. Sex is good, marriage is good, no need to wait for marriage to enjoy the former.
As a species we suck at monogamy, We used to conduct a few basic lab exercises in first year biology like blood typing and comparing that to peoples parents and looking at the inheritance of the ABO types people had. it is not done any more because every single year multiple students found out that their father was not who they thought it was. If we did the same with DNA about 25% of the students would find out that their daddy is not their 'real' daddy.
Enjoy sex, enjoy marriage, if you are not enjoying either you are doing something wrong. And using a poorly translated 2 thousand year old text to justify your decisions? Have you read that thing?







