crissindahouse said:
-CraZed- said:
crissindahouse said:
i would rather feel enslaved if i wouldn't have sex with the chance to have it just because i'm not married. that would be a really bad situation. enslaved to the idea that i can't because i'm not married.
i also don't think that our society would be better. the society was also not better in my opinion when almost everyone was married compared o nowadays. and that which was better doesn't have anything to do with people who are married or not.
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The problem with your thoguth process is that when you give in to your temptations despite your knowing better you then have become enslaved. Enslaved by your desires. You have to willfully choose to not have sex. It is much harder to say no when it is dropped in front of you than it is to just do it.
Not too mention many times young people are given the impression that its cool to be having sex and are under the false pretense that everyone else is doing it etc. So when they give in to that or use that as an excuse to engage oin sex or any behavior that has major consequences to them for that matter they have indeed become enslaved. Enslaved by the masses and the perceptions they are under. Saying no is soooo much harder, and is the higher road and the way away from enslavement.
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no, i'm not enslaved if i do something which is pretty normal for creatures on this planet. it's pretty much the opposite.
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No one says sex in itself unnatural. That isn't the debate here. Sex is VERY natural and should be enjoyed by every mature adult. Though, its really hard to truely enjoy something when you have no real grasp on it's consequences and ramifications. Which when I was a younger man I had no effing clue to be straight forward. I thought nothing of the child I produced before hand. I was being selfish and my son had to pay the price of a life of his mother and father not being together. He also grew up with less in terms of stability and rescources. Not to mention the burden it put on my family and society at large.
Because I couldn't keep it in my pants I became a slave to my circumstances. No way could I walk away from my child. That might sound heroic to some but its not its just something that I had to do and it held back my career and kept me from having real fun in my 20s. Things are working out but man if only...
Don't fool yourself friend. There is much to lose and little to gain when you let your little head get ahead of your big head.
