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-CraZed- on 02 July 2013
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JinxRake said:
Zappykins said:
 

I am sorry, but I think this is one of the most immoral conditions people put on young people.  I am not saying be a slut, but sex is part of growing up, knowing who you are, and maturity.  Unless both partners are not interested in not having sex EVER, then by all means they need to know if they are sexually compatible before marriage.


A million times THAT! Bad sex can and will be a relationship killer. It's lead to a lot of very unhappy people over time and will lead to a lot more. But hey...long as you're pure, why should anyone care that you're miserable and frustrated, no?

You absolutely have no idea what a marriage killer is. Give me one study where 'bad sex' has contributed to the death of marriage. Heck just by your rationale, if two virgins meet and get married how would they know what bad sex even is? The fact of th ematter is money, differing value systems, lack of trust, addictions, PAST RELATIONSHIPS and lack of physical intimacy (not bad sex they are different) or infidelity are all the top reasons marriages fail.

I underlined and bolded past relationships as people who have premartial sex and relationships that are a so-called right of passage are a major issue for many people.  Which you so eloquently tried to claim is somehow the way to better relationships. Sorry but you are misguided.

I am far from some bible thumping zealot I haven't been to church since I was a kid. But I do know that there are many positives associated with many of the so-called fuddy duddy stuff associated with many religious practices such as waiting for marriage to have sex. Heck just the fact that you avoid unwanted pregnancy and STDs ought to be enough for anyone to steer clear.