Calmador said:
It can be. But rape can occur within marriage. I don't see how saving sex for marriage follows from that. And no I don't know God created sex, because there's no evidence for God. This is wrong with it. The things that can go wrong and according to God has said, sex before marriage is the wrong way to go about it. The possible negative (evil) outcomes of sex being done wronly are divorce, aids, players using people up... mistrust of the opposite sex... selfishness. That's what I count so far... Again wih the God's word. I'm looking for an argument from you without resort to God or the bible. Why, MORALLY, is what you said true? All those evil outcomes are not prevented by what you're doing. Divorce.... How? If a wife or husband starts having sex others... this can hurt the relationship so far as to end it. No much to explain here... Aids... As far as we know Aids has been traced back to a man having sex with an animal, a monkey. Sex with animals is something God has disapproved of and the consequence of that as we now know is Aids. So AIDS is God's punishment for humanity? Wow. Players.... Do I need to explain this much? I don't think so... as we all know, people in society are out there manipulating others just for sex... this is a hurtful and damaging thing to our social structure. Men and women grow in mistrust of each other because of individuals that have sex without care about anything else but getting IT. This selfish lust at work. They manipulate others for money or power too. But sex is singled out in the Bible as uniquely sinful. I don't really see that. Last and definitely not least... Rape. What is wrong with sex? Its that sex can go wrong... that's what CAN be wrong with sex. Otherwise, I think we're better off looking to God's ways on how to practice sex... in a relationship that is sealed in marriage, between a man and woman only. You haven't explained why such absolute rules are needed. How about we follow a moral code that doesn't allow for rape, that asks for condom use, that has equality and mutual respect - then all these prohibitions aren't needed. Put simply, you've shown A moral code is needed. Why is God's the best? You asked how sex can be wrong... what are the negative outcomes... there you go. And it wasn't hard to think of negative things that can happen because of the misuse of sex. Please reconsider okay.. I'm trying to help ya. Alright. Now why is God's way the best way to solve this? EDIT: Also, about my certianty about God's existence... I think I'm allowed to literally post/express myself like so... Its almost like you commanded me to not talk there. There's nothing wrong with the way I posted... and if all or some of VG charts don't share my belief... that is irrelevant. I think you really should reconsider what you said about that too. Read my words carefully. 1. It helps if you don't assume your reader believes in or recognises the importance of God, because it makes your argument weak. You can talk about God all you want, it's just advice for a better debate. |