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Zappykins said:

I am sorry, but I think this is one of the most immoral conditions people put on young people.  I am not saying be a slut, but sex is part of growing up, knowing who you are, and maturity.  Unless both partners are not interested in not having sex EVER, then by all means they need to know if they are sexually compatible before marriage.


A million times THAT! Bad sex can and will be a relationship killer. It's lead to a lot of very unhappy people over time and will lead to a lot more. But hey...long as you're pure, why should anyone care that you're miserable and frustrated, no?