theprof00 said:
JoeFlex said:
theprof00 said:
JoeFlex said:
Sorry to hear, but life goes on. Just do you and build yourself. If you build it they will come.  |
Thanks m8. I think it's an excellent opportunity for us to build ourselves, for sure.
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Don't mention it. I broke up with mine about 2 months ago (after 5 years). I came to the realization that we were stagnant and it wasn't fair to either of us trying to stick it out. When you are faced with diminishing returns it is best to cut your losses and invest in something else. The common denominators we had started dissolving over time - now we're like night and day and she is often nagging and bickering. I couldn't marry somebody like that lol I'd go ape shit on her.  After a month, whatever feelings I clinged to evaporated. So now I am assessing myself. Was I in love? Was I "in lust"? (as the women say). I don't know, but I do know I am better off and it's best we stay friends - if possible.
These things happen. We are young, capable and not living in China so there's plenty of females out there and plenty of opportunities. Plus, Boston has some boss p****y.
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Seems like we were in a very similar situation. I could've written that exact post. Except, I was definitely in love, just not the right kind of love that makes intimate relationships work.
And you're 100% right about that. All these college girls are ridiculous.
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Was it not reciprocal then? Elaborate, if u don't mind. I might have been at one point, but I noticed I loved her more than she loved me at year 2 or 3, so I dropped some of those feelings lol Or at least I trained myself to. That's a dangerous situation to be in - when you're in deeper than the other person. At one point it seemed as if I was diving and she was doggy paddling. I'm not up for that shit. All in or bust.
Seems like you two were on different wave lengths. Well ... at least you can be friends. Mind deleted me on Skype, Twitter, Whatsapp .... everything.
