ghost_of_fazz said:
Soleron said:
ghost_of_fazz said:
I feel you're thinking of it in a very bureucratic way. Or maybe you've only been with people that think of it that way.
I think that if there's trust in the relationship, you are not needed to base your actions off what The Law says. Really, when a girl says "you can do anything you want to me", it's because she trusts you that you'll never want to do anything bad to her, or anything that she wouldn't like.
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It's just very scary because you can think you have that trust, and that you can take some of her words to imply consent, and then next thing BAM jail time.
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So it's all about jail, eh? Jail is what you're scared of, then...
You know what I would be scared of in a situation like this? Of her getting grumpy because she really needed the sleep and rest. Maybe you've never had real trust in your relationships if you're afraid of your partners sending you to jail for something like this... :/
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I haven't had any relationships at all. But this is a question of morality and certain people in the thread are extending 'well she'd probably let you' to 'it's OK to have sex with someone who hasn't given explicit consent'. Which it isn't.
