Man Tricks Girlfriend Into Getting Abortion

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the2real4mafol said:

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ultima said:

the2real4mafol said:
What a bastard, if he didn't want a kid yet then don't have sex! Don't trick your girl into having an abortion, especially if she don't want that. The women gives birth, so it's exclusively their choice if they want an abortion or not

I agree with you that it's the woman's choice to have the child or not. But what of the father? Should he get the choice of "financial abortion"?

What is "financial abortion"? I have never heard of it

Meaning that a father can decide early on that he doesn't have to pay child support. 

I though they had a choice on this even if the baby was born ,even though it shows how bad they are as a person

If the father decides he doesn't want anything to do with the child, the mother can bring the state in and force him to pay child support. Even if he doesn't have a job and cannot pay, he will go to prison. At least that's how it works here in Pennsylvania. 

It don't work like that in the UK and i know because my so called dad don't finanicially support me and he hasn't done so for about 10 years now (he split with my mum). 

Well here it is the custodial parent's responsibility to bring the state in to the picture, possibly that is the case in the UK as well? For example, my mother didn't go through the state to get child support for myself because my father supported me on his own free will. But if my father said, no, I won't give child support my mother could have taken him to court and got money. This is what she'd done with my half-brother's father, and he's been in jail many times because he was unable to pay it, which essentially screwed my mother because he couldn't get a job in prison. Most people prefer not to get the state involved for that reason, because if you don't pay (regardless of whether you can or not) they put you in prison, and it makes it harder for you to get money from them. 

edit: Another difference in getting the state involved is that you must pay the accumulated child support, even if the kid has grown up.