| spurgeonryan said: Let's be honest. Unless you are on a pill that I think is called the "Ropes", males only have one quick orgasm. What is the point? Why does our chemistry control, or better yet, why do we allow our body to control us like this? For no more than a few seconds of gratification and the feel of another human close to you? Get a message. But people watch porn and do other strange things just to have this 3 seconds of gratification. What is the point? Besides creating other humans with another person. There are plenty of other things in life that feel good as well, and is a lot easier than having an orgazm. Is it really that satisfying to you that you have to have it? I think that many could probably live without it if Sex was not everywhere around us. One or two times and done. Maybe when you are younger it interest you much more, but besides the curiosity factor, doesn't it get old to you>? |
The reason why men are men is because of evolution. The shape of the human penis is designed as such as to extract sperm out of the vagina. Subsequently, to ensure fertilization of the ovum, men only have a single orgasm and become flacid. In addition, unlike women, the male orgasm is tied to a specific event, ejactulation. If men were to have multiple orgasms, then they would have difficulty with copulating with multiple partners and ensuring the continuation of the species.
So, to reiterate, males have a single orgams for evolutionary reasons. The two-fold purpose of it is to ensure insemination, by detering prolonged sex and allowing a male the opportunity to copulate with more than one partner. Evolution is also the reason why males are able to maintain their senses while having sex, where as women get lost in the moment. Men are capable of being more alert due to fact that they needed to ensure there were no threats approaching while copulation occurred.
The art of an orgasm is how to prolong it until you can't hold back anymore. Then, yes it's worth it. Also men can have multiple orgasms through a prostate orgasm. Through normal penile stimulation you aren't limited to one run, however you are typically required a little down time. It varies based on the man, his physiology, and heightened sexaul interest. However, some men can immediately get back to business while typically after the first orgasm most men require about five minutes before they can obtain a full erection.
Hence why I recommend, she deliver a blow job to ejactulation, then you go down on her until you regain your erection. Then depending on you, you may last anywhere between 5 and 15 minutes giving you ample time to try new positions as well as bring her to orgasm.
