Horrorfest said:
I brought it up because it is the biggest reason why I wasn't able to go driving. I had no motivation whatsoever as I was fighting for my life desperately trying to seek help from a dermatologist to help which took much longer than I wanted it too. In reply to naruball, you clearly didn't read everything I said so I'm all going to say is I never expected or asked for anything which I've said several times. I clearly said he gave me his word to help me out. Maybe you don't give a shit about it but me, I don't sit and take it when people walk over me, lie and break their word. I'm the type of person who will call you out because I've dealt with too much bullshit in my life. Maybe you can't or don't like to, I don't know. You can deal with your life however you want to. Lastly and this is the last big point I will make, since I've already said so much about my life, I have my reasons for not putting up with harassment or any kind of unjustified bullshit. I dealt with bad verbal abuse from my father for most of my life. Especially, when I had to live with him for awhile. Do you know how I handled all that? I sat in my room alone and rarely ever confronted him even though I should have every time. My solution was to take it and hope it stops and it continued and continued! Just like it had with my step father until now. I never once had a physical incident but I stood up to him a few times and of course he backed down. The moral of the story is, while my step dad's harassment was not as severe as my father it was still bad and unwarrented. As you can probably imagine it brought bad memories of my father when I put up with his shit for most of my life. I don't and haven't put up with my fathers shit in awhile but I am no longer the weak child or teenager who will sit and take shit after shit. |
No, I actually read every single thing posted here. In my opinion and apparently almost everyone else's, breaking your word is not as a big deal as you make it to be. It's part of life. Your boss promises you time off and something comes up and you get nothing. What do you do? You deal with it. You can get fired and starve to death or move on. By stressing so much that he broke his word, you clearly have expectations of him. If you didn't, you simply wouldn't care.
Also, you didn't address any of the questions I asked you. Anyway, it's your life, do whatever you want. At least you made a topic and asked if you were wrong, so I guess there's some hope. If you don't trust our uneducated advice, I suggest you see a professional, if you can afford it. For all I know, I may be wrong and simply not understand your situation. The way you describe it, though, makes me think you're completely wrong.
