Meh. This is a video game forum. As a demographic, we are inherently the most discourteous and insufferable males society has to offer. Do you really think anyone on here is going to give a damn if a girl gets offended by a crude joke? You complain about this and it's a slippery slope to complaining about perverted pictures of women on here and at that point nobody here is going to support you.
Not trying to be discouraging; I'm probably more in agreement with you than most.
“These are my principles; if you don’t like them, I have others.” – Groucho Marx