I'm in High School (obviously) and I haven't heard anyone actually use the word rape outside of actually talking about the act of raping someone because it was brought up in a class discussion or something. (And how horrible that is.)
Most people really need to just calm down. People don't use the word rape as "owned you" because they actually want to make someone who has been raped feel bad. Same with retard, gay, or any other word that's now being used as an "insult" or something to that extent.
Now, I personally don't throw around those words (because I like to use a better vocabulary than that) but it doesn't bother me if other people do.







