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spurgeonryan said:

Please change title to alternate lifestyle if that is more respectful. Sorry.

 

So I am a man. I comb my hair to the side and have a mustache/scruffy beard from time to time. I wear polo's a lot as well while at work. Plus I wear those white tennis shoes that 50 year old men wear to the boardwalk.

 

Seems to me guys are always smiling at me or flirting with me. I am not too attractive I do not think. But maybe it looks like I am smiling at them because I have a smiling problem? Females smile as well but that always seems out of kindness. To be honest when I am just walking around I do not pay attention to anyone. But at work I am in the zone and I feel my face is always contorted in a rage as I am trying to get things done. So it does not make sense to me.

 

Maybe it is my appearance? I also am not one to really watch sports unless a local team is winning, I think most beer tastes bitter and until recently I hardly cussed. Could these reasons be actual reasons?

 

Does anything I just said make sense? Do men actually think I am of Alternate lifestyle? No hate in this thread! This is a real question and not trying to be rude towards anyone.

Well... If you are smiling back and express interest by either laughing or engaging in a conversation with them when they are flirting with you, don't ask yourself why they look at you or think you are gay lol