wfz said:
1) You act as if we treat women and black people as if they're property. I don't see that happening anywhere in our modern society. 2) My being made fun of and ridiculued for my skin and hair color wasn't nearly as bad as it is for black people and women in modern society? As if you know what I went through. You pretend you understand when you have no fucking idea what it's like to be harrassed like that. I have never seen women ridiculued, nor even black people ridiculued, so openly and so acceptably as I was as a child. You have no basis to say that my life experience has been easier than that of your average female or black person. Meanwhile, I have my life as experience. 3) It wasn't just white guys making fun of me. It was white, latino, black, etc. Stop acting like you understand the situation when you're clearly oblivious to it. 4) Me, being "shittier" to other people because of how I was treated? Here you go again with your assumptions. I have UTMOST respect for females. My entire family is female: my mom, two older sisters, two aunts, and my grandma. That's my entire family. I was raised by them and care for them and respect them deeply. Just as I do any other female. Way to make assumptions about me and my ideals. 5) Guess what? There are multiple "good looks" for women as well! Many men love girls with a few extra pounds, many men love women who look like super models. Many men love women who look totally different from what society deems as "beautiful." The same goes the other way: many women love men who are bigger, smaller, more muscly, less muscly, etc. The fact that you don't understand this is hilarious. =) What I'm talking about, when I make statements about being pressured to look a certain way, is the way SOCIETY views us. Society tells women to be super models. Society tells men to be tall, dark, muscular. That's the pressure I'm talking about, which is entirely different from personal taste.
"It sucked for you but wasn't nearly as bad as it was for other people." You are fucking hilariously ignorant. I love it. You know nothing about my life, what I went through. You are the person who is blind to anything but descrimination towards certain groups (i.e. blacks, women) and fail to see how others can be just as greatly affected and hurt. You are what's wrong with our society. Plain and fucking simple. Try to learn outside your cute little bubble sometime. |
1) Then you really aren't looking hard enough... espiecally with women.... it happens quite a bit. Dead Island bloody torso ring a bell for example? The point is, plenty of things bring this back... including... what you refrenced in the OP. Hence the outrage.
2) No, i pretty much can say that... because yeah it has happened. Again did you ever once feel like property or brought back to when you were a slave. Everything you went through could and HAS happened to black people and women... with the addition of being brought back to the negatives once inflicted on them... and also still inflicted on them often in society.
3) Again... you were being compared to other white guys right?
4) It's not an assumption.... I mean, you did start this thread afterall.
5) No there isn't. Not in the same way. If you study sociology you'll notice a there is a specific ideal woman This doesn't exist for men.
Once again, I suggest... look at the 100 top hottest guys. Compare that to the 100 top sexiest girls. You'll note the guys come in many more body types, and ethnicities.
Sure some guys here or there prefer different things.... they are a minority compaired to the majority of men who have been socially groomed to like one specific type of woman.
MEANWHILE, for men, there are multiple different archtypes that have fairly evenly split devotion and no one "ideal" form that the majority of a women find attractive.
Basically if you were to take 10 guys in a room and tell them to come to an agreement on the ideal woman... they would finish rather quickly, even if someone disagreed they'd still find that woman hot. Ask the Woman the same thing and you probably aren't getting an answer remotely soon... Vin Diesal, Justin Timberlake, George Clooney. There will be women who find one of those 3 extremely hot, and thing the other two are awful looking. Doesn't really happen the same very often with men.
Also the stuff i'm talking about comes from the actual field of sociology.... the scientific study of society. This is stuff coming from the sociological perspective. In otherwords... i'm not the one in a bubble. Well technically EVERYBODY is in the bubble of sociology and culture which effects us in tons of ways we don't know, but the important part here is... I know what's going on at least.
As an example
https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/
If you take that test as honestly as possible your likely going to be pretty surprised. Though possibly not since i imagine you can guess where it's headed and might hestiatie a lot more because of it.
