My ex came to see her kids for the first time in two years- first night at a hotel with them she braided my daughters hair like a Ghetto child and gave my boys earrings....

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spurgeonryan said:

theprof00 said:

spurgeonryan said:

No one in their school has earrings, and she is a princess....not a rappers wife.

Plus she brings me hand me down clothes for them. Not to he rude, but the clothing is aimed at inner city kids.

Remember..my kids are white and in yuppie neighborhoods. Should I listen to her wishes or change them back to normal as soon as she leaves for two more years?

Maybe you should let your kids do what they want to do.

They are four, seven, and nine years old. When they are in 7-12 grade they can make those types of choices. Silly. Didn't you ever see that Adam Sandler movie " That's my boy"?

Oh, nvm I didn't know their ages. Even so, I had my ears pierced at nine, and everyone thought I was cool shit. A little white girl with cornrows is cute, and will make her feel special. That's my opinion. Your kids should grow up with diversity.