My ex came to see her kids for the first time in two years- first night at a hotel with them she braided my daughters hair like a Ghetto child and gave my boys earrings....

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You have very "interesting" life, Ryan.
Also, lol at Akvod getting angry at everything and everyone again.

OT: I say you take action and hide in the Amazon where your Ex will never find you, or your kids again. You can live off of the tropical fruits and flies while trying not to get killed. This lifestyle would be a great and adventurous one.
Or you can just not let her touch your kids with this "hood" mindset. (Throwing the clothes away was probably a good idea.)