Plastic Surgery opinions?

[Majora]

DevilRising said:

chocoloco said:
I like big boobs.

Quite honestly as a social libertarian I cannot say one should judge, or call it wrong. A majority of people tattoo themselves which is something that is just as much body modification on that is mainstream everywhere.

Hey, as a straight male I love big floppy boobs too. They're fantastic, one of nature's greatest creations. But I like REAL big floppy boobs. Not big silicone bags that hang there straight out like they're on anti-gravity, they don't bounce or jiggle naturally, they barely move at all. It's disturbing, and the very idea is disgusting. I would in fact call it "wrong". Getting fake tits to make beleive you really have BIG tits, to somehow help you feel "better" about your self image, that isn't healthy or helpful or "okay", that's demented. If you're not okay with how you look, there's a problem, and it's a psychological one. People are never going to get over insecurity if they just try to unnaturally "modify" their bodies to "improve" their appearance. That's not how it works. A girl is never going to feel "GOOD" about herself because she got a boob-job. She does it because she thinks that's what men and society want out of her, and no offense to anyone who's gotten one, but quite frankly, I think it's a sign of not only severe lack of self-worth and self-confidence, but it's also degrading and incredibly shallow. You're saying that as a woman, the size of your breasts defines who you are. You're saying that having smaller breasts is somehow detrimental to who you are or your life. And that, to me, is sad and at least a bit sickening.

I simply cannot concieve of any OTHER reason why a self-respecting, CONFIDENT woman would have a boob-job done. I may, as a man, LOVE big tits, sure I freely and proudly admit it. That's nature. But if I meet a girl who's an awesome personality, who happens to be a great person and is even gorgeous besides, but has smaller boobs? No way in hell would I be one of those guys who asks his girl to "get her boobs done". I think that shows just as much shallowness and depravity on the side of the man as it does the woman, because what DECENT guy, what decent PERSON would say "Oh sure I love you, but would you change 'X' about yourself please?" The only thing I could see myself ever asking a woman to change about herself, is if she smoked, because cigarettes are vile, I don't want to be around them, and don't want her to die of lung cancer. Outside of that, if you're not happy with who a person is, or how they look, yet claim to want to be with them, you've got a problem. Just as much as a person who claims to be confident in herself, happy with herself, yet wants a boob-job, has serious issues.

 

That's how I see it at least.

I understand what you're saying and of course respectfully recognise your right to an opinion. But at the same time if you are willing to only love someone or allow yourself to fall in love with someone who meets your perfecting criteria, I think you belong to the wrong species. Please don't this a personal attack because it isn't, I just love the human race ability to label obvious flaws when each and everyone of us (whether we acknowledge it or not) has flaws. And if a woman who mentally might be perfect for you is labelled repulsive because she smokes or had implants because that made her feel better about herself is automatically ruled out then I think you have a bigger problem than those who do what makes them happy and wants acceptence as a member of the human race than they do. Just how I see it.