My ex came to see her kids for the first time in two years- first night at a hotel with them she braided my daughters hair like a Ghetto child and gave my boys earrings....

[ironmanDX]

Change them back now. She can't not have anything to do with them in 2 years then just come back on to the scene and try to change YOUR kids. You are bringing them up in a way that you deem the best. If she wants a say, make her see them more often and actually act like a parent.


Appologies if this offends.